Category Archives for Singing

Aussi singer / songwriter Brioni Faith

Here I got to chat with fascinating Australian singer songwriter Brioni Faith on the creative process, voice and more! Hopefully you will find this helpful and can apply what we chat about into many areas of your life.

How does she write her songs? How does a mix of her song come about? What does she do with her voice? Does she practice? What is practice anyway? How does she get into the creative process?

And what about promoting yourself to and make yourself seen?

Watch/listen. How can you apply this into your own life? Please leave a comment below.

Go to Brioni's website:
www.BrioniFaith.com

Stockholm and Sarah Dawn Finer – The Art Of Inspiring and Moving On

How do you feel about living in the most peaceful times in modern history? (Maybe you weren’t aware that this is the case in most places on this planet?) Yes, there is a lot of misery in many places and yes, horrible things happen. But what is interesting is how we respond.

Maybe you heard what happened in my hometown Stockholm a few weeks ago. Yes, many want to react and call out the “T” word. “Terrorism has reached Stockholm!” In fact, it was one man, in his deep need to feel significant, who acted out. (Yes, we all need to feel significant somehow.)

Yes, he drove a truck through a crowd and killed 4 people. Not a difficult thing to do. And he wouldn’t have done it if someone else hadn't done it before him, and he wouldn’t have done it if he had grown up seeing the world with different eyes, feeling loved and having learned to be significant in different ways.

Will it happen again? Very likely. Especially due to the copycat syndrome, and for the fact that he actually succeeded in becoming somewhat significant in his and some other people’s views.

But this article is not about that man or his belief system. This is about the difference between reacting and responding. I have written about it many times as it is the foundation for peak performance. In my interview with George Mumford (mental coach for the Chicago Bulls and LA Lakers in the Phil Jackson era) we talked about it also.

How do you respond in an empowering way to a challenge in life, whether on the sports field on stage, or in other situations in life? How do you respond to a crisis? How can we respond in ways that empower us and other people? How can we respond bringing unity rather than react in anger and creating more resistance?

The people of Stockholm responded beautifully.It was largely inspired and organized by Damon Rasti – an immigrant who grew up in a war-torn country, who so deeply appreciates the love and acceptance he has received coming to the country of Sweden. Because of his deep gratitude for what the country has given him, he wanted to express that gratitude and bring people together. In less than 40 hours, 25,000 people came together, in addition to everyone watching on TV.

And up on stage stepped Sarah Dawn Finer…

Ladies and gentlemen, here’s a great example of how a voice and a guitar, together with a big heart, well crafted words and a melody, can inspire and move a nation – to feel gratitude, love, and to be moving on.

Thank you people of Stockholm, Damon Rasti and Sarah Dawn Finer.

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When “Follow Your Dreams” Gets Tough

Follow your dreams”! You’ve heard that all your life.

And you’ve done so – maybe as an artist, athlete, or entrepreneur.

But then you face challenges. And after some time with constant struggle, it’s not so fun anymore. You’ve lost the joy.

And worse, you may feel bad, event guilty about it.After all, you're supposed to love what you do and do what you love.

This is actually a very common feeling for artists, athletes, and entrepreneurs.

Creative people face rejection all the time. Financial struggles are often part of the game.

Many artist love to create, but dealing with the business side of things becomes less inspiring.

Dominic Cincotta is an amazing singer, but he lost the joy he once had for singing. I had the pleasure of meeting him at my Live Event in Melbourne, where he was gracious to come up on stage.

Watch this video first. Then we’ll talk about how to ignite that joy again.

Much of what my work as a coach is and has been to help reignite joy in artists and entrepreneurs. I want to help ignite that spark within to make their lives and careers much more fulfilling and successful.

So what can we do to reignite joy? What can we do to achieve greater success?

There are several aspect to this of course, but let’s begin by addressing one word Dominic mentioned:

Awareness

Anyone who has participated in any of my live or online training knows that developing greater awareness is key to be able to effectively improve in any area.
 

It applies to effectively healing a voice problem, but frankly, also in order to achieve greater success in any area.

Here’s why:

The trap of the "results".

A big trap we tend to fall into is the drive for a “results”. It’s understandable. We all want results. Me too. I have high ambitions and big goals. But the question is how to achieve "result". 

After some time of struggle and you still haven’t achieved the result you want, more and more frustration sets in.

If you feel expectations from the outside world, as well as from within, with time you feel more and more pressure.

What are your dreams?

There’s nothing wrong with having dreams and goals of course. But operating with a result oriented mind is something very different from having dreams and goals.

Part of my training is to lead you through processes to awaken your awareness.

When we do so we become better at living in the moment, and become better at being engaged in exciting processes. Through this you also begin to recognize progress that you would otherwise not have done.

Yes, one big part is to learn the difference between...

Result-oriented vs. process-oriented.

It's the process-oriented individual who actually gets the results.

When you shift your awareness and mindset in this way, you experience the world differently. Practice becomes fun.

It become exciting to get up Monday morning to explore and discover, rather than try and do something “right”, or live up to someone’s expectations.

It's interesting that it's often the driven, ambitious person who is the one who falls into the trap of becoming more and more results-oriented.

Think about this:

If time passes and you’re still not achieving the "results" you think you should, it becomes very easy to feel “I’m not good enough”, doesn't it?

Unfortunately, we’ve been conditioned to be result-oriented from an early age, through school, and through a lot of “training”.

Let’s look at traditional singing training as an example:

No discipline I am aware of tends to use words such as “proper”, “correct”, and “right” vs. “wrong” as much as in the world of traditional classical singing training.

We should realize that effective sports trainers don’t use such nonsensical words.

In the world of effective training, there is no such thing as “proper”.

The only thing that matters is what is EFFECTIVE for you in your stage of development and depending on what you want to improve.

That futile search for “proper”, for “perfection”, for what you “should accomplish”, is a surefire way to sap the joy out of you. 

The feeling/fear of not being “good enough” hampers many. Probably you too, 

The day when you are doing it “right” is a day that will never come. It’s a fantasy. 

In fact, most “results” people strive for are fantasies because they actually aren’t aware of what they really want.

The most common feedback you get.

The most common feedback we get in life is when someone points out what is wrong. Why? Because that’s easy.

we've been conditioned avoid the spelling “mistake”, avoid the math “error”, avoid making a fool out of yourself, don’t “miss”, don't be flat, don't be sharp, don't crack, don’t do this and don’t do that.

The fear of making mistakes, the fear of being wrong, the discomfort of messing up, the feeling of not being good enough, etc., takes a toll.

Artists tend to get into the feeling that they always have to prove themselves.  Have you ever felt that?

And the more successful you become, the more critiqued you'll become on social media, for example.

Athletes compete all the time and are benched the day they don’t do well.

Entrepreneurs have to constantly fail and reinvent themselves, and struggle all day long. And many get into these fields with a deep desire to prove themselves. (This can be turned into beautiful fuel for the benefit of mankind.)

So it’s very easy to become caught up in the feeling that “I’m not good enough”, and that “I’m not doing enough”. And with that pressure, joy quickly becomes absent.

What is joy really?

Joy comes from engagement in the process.

Once you become deeper engaged in processes and develop deeper and deeper awareness, you develop at far more rapid speed, and experiences greater success as a results from that.

Yes, “results” are actually a bi-product from how effectively you can engage in the process.

So here are questions for you…

Do you judge yourself or others in terms of “correct” vs “incorrect”, or “right” vs “wrong”, or “good” vs “bad”?

What and who’s expectations are you trying to live up to?

Do you feel you are not good enough? Do you feel life “should” be different?

Yes, life COULD be very different when you become engaged in beautiful processes where you are engaged in exploration and discovery, and then experience rewarding progress from it.

Post your comment below​.

“Follow your dreams”! You’ve heard that all your life. And you’ve done it. Maybe as an artist, athlete, or entrepreneur. But now with all the struggle… the challenges… it’s not so fun anymore… you’ve lost the joy…

It’s a common feeling for artists, athletes, and entrepreneurs.

Dominic Cincotta is an amazing singer. But he lost the joy he once had for singing. I had the pleasure of meeting him at my Live Event in Melbourne, where he was gracious to come up on stage. Watch this video first. Then we’ll talk about how to ignite that joy again.

Taylor Swift’s Former Manager Shares Powerful Insights

Do you want a bigger and more enthusiastic audience when you sing? What if you had a bigger following on social media and could have a bigger impact on your world?

In the video below you meet Rick Barker - Taylor Swift’s former manager. I had the pleasure of having Rick attend my live event in Las Vegas and I truly appreciate him as a person and what he does for artist.

Yes, Rick was Taylor Swift’s manager and was instrumental in launching her career. He has also been the social media mentor for American Idol contestants, and has been advising and helping many artists and record labels. Most of all he is a human being with a big heart wanting to help people.

Navigating the industry, getting work, getting seen as an artist is tricky. Many up-an-coming artist approach it backwards and lose out on enormous opportunity. But with skills and good guidance things become so much easier. And this applies to any field, not just artists. Watch this video:

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Do you want a bigger and more enthusiastic audience when you sing? What if you had a bigger following on social media and could have a bigger impact on your world?

In the video below you meet Rick Barker – Taylor Swift’s former manager. I had the pleasure of having Rick attend my live event in Las Vegas and I truly appreciate him as a person and what he does for artist.

Yes, Rick was Taylor Swift’s manager and was instrumental in launching her career. He has also been the social media mentor for American Idol contestants, and has been advising and helping many artists and record labels. Most of all he is a human being with a big heart wanting to help people.

The Power Of Vulnerability

Yes, the power of vulnerability — or we could in this case call it “How To Get A Standing Ovation”.

The video below is from the recent Live Event in Melbourne ( next event is in London May 21 ). Every event is slightly different, and this time we had Alinta come up on stage. As with many performers, performance anxiety is (was) a real concern for her. (Yes, it’s not just beginners who experience anxiety!) And one of the purposes of the event is to learn how to transform these common fears into creativity, spontaneity and peak performance.

This is a crucial skill to develop (yes, it is a developed skill that few ever engage in developing), not just for performers, athletes,and entrepreneurs, but for anyone who wants to achieve greater success in life. Without training the skill to be able to transform fears into high level performance during challenging times, challenges in life become overwhelming and associated with fear and pain. As a result, most people never discover what they are truly capable of.

Here I have a little fun with Alinta, and she initially finds herself out of her comfort zone to be singing in a key she wouldn't normally sing in. Understand that this is not a performance, when you would have rehearsed, have a good accompanist (I'm not a pianist), and sing in your optimal key. This was an exercise to implement some of the things we had covered earlier in the day. Alinta beautifully went for it, and allowed herself to be open and vulnerable. The standing ovation speaks for itself.

Note: The resulting standing ovation is not to be nice. It's a result of the genuine vulnerable energy Alinta emitted that truly captivated the Melbourne Grand Hyatt Ballroom room. Bravo Alinta.

So, what might you experience if you give yourself permission to be vulnerable?

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Check out Alinta at AlintaMusic.com
Come to the next Live Event in London May 21! TheSingingZone.com/live/london

Yes, the power of vulnerability — or we could in this case call it “How To Get A Standing Ovation”.

The video below is from the recent Live Event in Melbourne (next event is in London May 21). Every event is slightly different, and this time we had Alinta come up on stage. As with many performers, performance anxiety is (was) a real concern for her. (Yes, it’s not just beginners who experience anxiety!) And one of the purposes of the event is to learn how to transform these common fears into creativity, spontaneity and peak performance.

This is a crucial skill to develop (yes, it is a developed skill that few ever engage in developing), not just for performers, athletes,and entrepreneurs, but for anyone who wants to achieve greater success in life. Without training the skill to be able to transform fears into high level performance during challenging times, challenges in life become overwhelming and associated with fear and pain. As a result, most people never discover what they are truly capable of.

Paul Shortino at Per Bristow Live

At “ Per Bristow Live ” in Las Vegas, Paul Shortino – star of the Las Vegas hit show Raiding The Rock Vault – showed up. Why? Even though he was struggling with overcoming the flu…

“Raiding The Rock Vault” is known not only for the amazing vocal performances and musicianship, but also for the beautiful connection with the audience.

Yes, you want to effectively develop your physical voice so you have an instrument that can express with passion and freedom. (Paul Shortino has a mighty powerful voice.) And the beauty is when this freedom leads to a greater ability to create bonds with other people – whether singing on a big stage, or in other instances of life.

What insights did you get from this?

What insights did you get from the event if you were there?

If you haven’t been to either “ Per Bristow Live ” or “ Raiding The Rock Vault ”, which one are you going to first? 🙂

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At “ Per Bristow Live ” in Las Vegas, Paul Shortino – star of the Las Vegas hit show Raiding The Rock Vault – showed up. Why? Even though he was struggling with overcoming the flu…

“Raiding The Rock Vault” is known not only for the amazing vocal performances and musicianship, but also for the beautiful connection with the audience.

Yes, you want to effectively develop your physical voice so you have an instrument that can express with passion and freedom. (Paul Shortino has a mighty powerful voice.) And the beauty is when this freedom leads to a greater ability to create bonds with other people – whether singing on a big stage, or in other instances of life.

Beyond Goal Setting – How To Excel in 2016

Have you set goals for 2016? Have you been taught goal setting strategies and been told that goals have to be measurable? Hey, measurable goals and clear visions for your future are great. But how about this:

Here are some of my upcoming challenges/events. Maybe you want to come and take the art of advanced skill development to the next level:

What skills are you engaged in developing this year? Post a comment below.

Have you set goals for 2016? Have you been taught goal setting strategies and been told that goals have to be measurable? Hey, measurable goals and clear visions for your future are great. But how about this:

Here are some of my upcoming challenges/events. Maybe you want to come and take the art of advanced skill development to the next level:

Per Bristow Live – Las Vegas – Jan 30
Per Bristow Live – Melbourne – March 12
Per Bristow Live – London – May 21

What skills are you engaged in developing this year? Post a comment below.

“Tone Deaf” Sings Magically On Key After 5 Minutes!

What you will witness in these videos below may seem magical. In a sense it is. However, you should know it works every time, and the reason I do this on stage is not only to crush the false belief of being "tone deaf", but to demonstrate the process of how we all - even the seasoned professional singer - can discover amazing unknown capacity within us.

Realize it’s not only these individuals who believed they were tone deaf. Their environment believed it too. People often post on FB that a "tone deaf" cannot learn to sing, or that the ability to sing on key is something you either have or don't have.

Numerous people think that just because they have tried and failed at something, it serves as proof that it's not possible, failing to realize that it was the strategy that failed. Numerous people live with beliefs of “inborn talent”.

One point of this demonstration is to crush the belief that being able to sing on key is all about your hearing. These "tone deaf" people's ears were fine and singing on key has far less to do with your ear than most people think. (It wasn’t the ear that improved in 5 minutes.)

However, the real point of of my live events are to teach the advanced skills of releasing what holds you back, rapid skill development, as well as mental peak performance training - not just for singing, but for life.

Whose who attended the previous live events witnessed not only what happened during those 5 minutes but also what had preceded it. While I of course cannot go through all of that in this short video, I hope this serves as an inspiration.

The Sing With Freedom/The Singing Zone provides important training in these mental/psychological/mindset strategies to improve effectively. At the upcoming Live Events in Las Vegas, Melbourne and London we'll take the psychology of learning and achieving to new levels.

What do you believe you cannot do or are not good at? Have you come to believe that "you are who you are" and that you can only marginally improve? Do you think you can't heal, increase your income, or become more influential? Do you think you can't do something because someone told you so, or that don't have the "talent"?

If you want to learn how you can dramatically improve any skill, and improve your life in a short amount of time, I'd love to see you at the next Live Event!
At "Per Bristow Live" in Toronto:
At "Per Bristow Live" in Miami:

Feel free to like and share this post, and leave a comment below. It might inspire someone.

What you will witness in these videos below may seem magical. In a sense it is. However, you should know it works every time, and the reason I do this on stage is not only to crush the false belief of being “tone deaf”, but to demonstrate the process of how we all – even the seasoned professional singer – can discover amazing unknown capacity within us.

Realize it’s not only these individuals who believed they were tone deaf. Their environment believed it too. People often post on FB that a “tone deaf” cannot learn to sing, or that the ability to sing on key is something you either have or don’t have.

Numerous people think that just because they have tried and failed at something, it serves as proof that it’s not possible, failing to realize that it was the strategy that failed. Numerous people live with beliefs of “inborn talent”.

One point of this demonstration is to crush the belief that being able to sing on key is all about your hearing. These “tone deaf” people’s ears were fine and singing on key has far less to do with your ear than most people think. (It wasn’t the ear that improved in 5 minutes.)

83-Year-Old Singer’s Amazing Comeback After 50 Years Of Silence

At my Live Event ("Per Bristow Live") in Toronto, I had the great honor of meeting Elaine Small in person for the first time. And what a gift she gave us all - the most beautiful lesson on the subject of “it’s never too late”. What a great role model for those who think they’re too old just because they’ve turned a certain age.

Her passion that had lied dormant for decades had awakened. She trained. She improved. She wrote a book. She recorded a wonderful CD backed by some of Canada’s top musicians, and then…

It was such a pleasure to invite her back on the same stage where one of her absolute last performances took place 50 years ago - at the famous Royal York in Toronto.

What passion lies dormant within you?

Ladies and gentlemen, enjoy and be inspired...here is Elaine Small…

Come to the next Live Event in LAS VEGAS, MELBOURNE or LONDON:

Feel free to like and share this post, and leave a comment below. It might inspire someone.

At my Live Event (“Per Bristow Live“) in Toronto, I had the great honor of meeting Elaine Small in person for the first time. And what a gift she gave us all – the most beautiful lesson on the subject of “it’s never too late”. What a great role model for those who think they’re too old just because they’ve turned a certain age.

Her passion that had lied dormant for decades had awakened. She trained. She improved. She wrote a book. She recorded a wonderful CD backed by some of Canada’s top musicians, and then…

It was such a pleasure to invite her back on the same stage where one of her absolute last performances took place 50 years ago – at the famous Royal York in Toronto.

What passion lies dormant within you?

Ladies and gentlemen, enjoy and be inspired…here is Elaine Small…

Remarkable Performance at Per Bristow Live Event

At "Per Bristow Live" in Toronto, I had the pleasure of inviting Deidrey Francois up on the stage. Only a few years ago, she didn't believe she could sing - that she wasn't "good enough". No one in the audience was prepared for the emotional impact she would have on us all. Here's the video. (Although this video does of course not do justice to the amazing experience we had in the room.)

Much of my Live Event is about learning how we can recognize the restrictions that hold us back in life, and then learn strategies to release them. (The next Live Event is in London May 21.) It's remarkable what happens when we ignite our ability and love to improve, learn, and discover, and develop greater awareness and freedom.

That's how we can become more creative and productive in life. That's how we can lead a more fulfilled and purposeful life, and accomplish great things.

Deidrey expressed how music has changed her life, and her song "I Am Free" became an inspiration for us all.

We of course realize that Deidrey has been able to sing for a long time. But however "good" we are, many (perhaps most of us) walk through life with the hampering feeling that we are not "good enough". Deidrey expressed how music has changed her life, and her song "I Am Free" became an inspiration for us all.

Thank you Deidrey for being such a positive role model, for releasing your voice to the world, and for sharing your passion.

Feel free to like and share this post, and leave a comment below. It might inspire someone.

At “Per Bristow Live” in Toronto, I had the pleasure of inviting Deidrey Francois up on the stage. Only a few years ago, she didn’t believe she could sing – that she wasn’t “good enough”. No one in the audience was prepared for the emotional impact she would have on us all. Here’s the video. (Although this video does of course not do justice to the amazing experience we had in the room.)

Much of my Live Event is about learning how we can recognize the restrictions that hold us back in life, and then learn strategies to release them. (The next Live Event is in London May 21.) It’s remarkable what happens when we ignite our ability and love to improve, learn, and discover, and develop greater awareness and freedom.

That’s how we can become more creative and productive in life. That’s how we can lead a more fulfilled and purposeful life, and accomplish great things.

Deidrey expressed how music has changed her life, and her song “I Am Free” became an inspiration for us all.

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